Are you focused on things being “fair”  in your marriage? If so, you’ll likely never able to actually accomplish “fair” because it’s a moving target. Instead we need to focus on generosity and that’s what this Double Date is all about!

Audio:

 

Transcript: Be-Generous.pdf

Talk About It:

Think back to your childhood. Was it important to you that things were “fair?” Can you share a story from your childhood where you felt something was “fair” or “unfair?”

If we focused on generosity instead of “fair,” would you have any fears at all doing that?

Is there something you would like for me to help you with?

Think About it:

Rate yourself 1-10–1 being rarely and 10 being always: How generous am I in my marriage?

Do I have true generosity in my heart, or am I more interested that things are equal?

Notes and Quotes:

The world of the generous gets larger and larger; the world of the stingy gets smaller and smaller. The one who blesses others is abundantly blessed; those who help others are helped.” Proverbs 11:24-25
“Having a servant heart means looking for ways to bless and serve each other.”
Information + Application = Transformation
NOTE: If you haven’t already watched the Dive Deep Interview with Nate and Kaley Klemp where we talked more about the concept of generosity, you can find that here