How to Use No More Perfect Date Night as an Individual

Do you long for a deeper marriage but your spouse just isn’t interested? Feel alone in marriage? Hope for restoration of something very broken between the two of you?

No matter how you answer those questions, you’re in the right place! You can choose to tap into the extensive library of resources and take in what looks interesting to you, or you can tap into new resources we send you nearly every week. We encourage you to find one time during the week to do something from No More Perfect Date Night. You may find it helpful to create a regular rhythm–or time of the week– that works best for you to learn and find encouragement. Every week we will offer you some way to deepen your marriage even though you’re the only one here!

Nearly every Tuesday we’ll send out something you can watch, do, or think through:

  • The Double Date with Mark and Jill videos we share will usually be 10-15 minutes in length. The discussion questions will help you take the concepts in the video and apply them to your marriage. You’ll want to particularly pay attention to the “Think About It” and “Notes and Quotes” sections.
  • The Dive Deep Interviews are usually be 30 to 40 minutes in length.  This is when we pull back the curtain on other real marriages and learn from their experiences. There will also be “Think About It” questions that will help you personalize the concepts in the video and apply them to your marriage.
  • The Design-A-Dates allow you to set aside some time each month to have fun together. Feel free to do the date night as described or to adapt it anyway you want! Even if your spouse isn’t willing to take in the video/audio parts of Date Night, he or she will likely be willing to have some fun together!
  • The Dynamic Dialogue Webinars are where we tackle a topic and answer your questions LIVE as well as those submitted throughout the week preceding the webinar. The webinar will be available live, but will also be recorded for viewing/listening at a later time.

In addition to our new content, you can also take advantage of our Dig Deeper Tracks and our Discover More Library.  There is over $2000 in content available in both of these sections of the Date Night site.

  • Our Dig Deeper Tracks are where you can dig deeper into a topic you know you need to grow in. This is where we assemble the best Date Night content into one place based upon topic. We’re adding new tracks all the time, so make sure and check back in often.
  • Our “Discover More” Library is where you’ll find additional go-to resources to tap into anytime! Looking for content on a specific topic? Click the topic that interests you most to find what you’re looking for. Taking a road trip together or looking for additional encouragement? Listen to one of the podcasts or click through to one of the articles in the Discover More section. Our commitment to you is to put some of the best marriage resources at your fingertips!

We want to urge you to keep asking God to grow you. Keep working to bring your best self to your marriage. You’ll have to resist the temptation to wish your spouse was here with you and instead keep your prayer, “God, what do you have for me here? Change me today, Lord.”

We are in your corner, cheering you on!