In marriage, we’re called to serve one another and this requires sacrifice. However, sometimes the timing of the serving may need to be adjusted based upon our availability, emotional capacity, and other responsibilities. That’s when we need to learn how to say no by saying yes. You can learn how in this 9 minute video!
Talk About It
In our marriage, would you describe me as generous or selfish? Tell me more about that.
What is one way I could better serve you in our marriage?
Think About It
How often does selfishness rise up inside of me?
Am I a person of my word? If I say I’ll do something, do I do it? Do I have a system to remember?
Notes and Quotes
“Yes, however,” is the key to saying no by saying yes.
You have to keep your “however” to be a person of your word and not break.